How in love with her you really were. Time has a funny way of making us realize our mistakes and without a doubt letting your ex girlfriend go was a big one. So, one day you decide to take a chance, to win her back.

Question – (16 February ): 2 Answers – (Newest, 16 February ): A male age , anonymous writes: Why does my ex girlfriend who I have a child with consistently ask if I am dating? She is the one who left the relationship and is now dating someone and I never ask her.

Dear Wendy is a relationship advice blog. You can read about me here , peruse the archives here and read popular posts here. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. About six months ago, my boyfriend of four years and I got engaged. We were planning on having a wedding around the end of this year. He had just gotten an amazing job offer two hours away and I was looking forward to moving in with him at his new place and excited to start a life with him. Two months after we were engaged, he abruptly called it off.

His reasons were that getting a new job, moving to a new city and planning a wedding were taking too much of a toll on him and he needed to be single to sort his life out. I coped by hanging around friends and family. A couple weeks after we broke up, my co-worker asked me out. We started to hang out here and there after work for happy hour and occasionally on the weekends. In the meantime, my ex started to text me about how much he missed me, realized his mistake and wanted to get back together again.