Jim Crotty I agree with your tips, Don. Shallow conversations are a complete turn-off. But then again we see their unwillingness to engage at a deeper level as. Social and personal contact is essential for the health of introverts. What book are you reading now?

Jul 17,  · Not quite convinced that one can consciously change one’s intro/extro-version or whether its simply blossoming into your original type, being an ambivert, or developing certain traits e.g. an introvert can appear as an extrovert.

You are inviting another person to reveal herself or himself to you, to tell you who they are or what they want. Questions to spark stories, draw out a few secrets, trigger a few belly laughs… and hopefully, help you to feel more deeply connected to the people you love. Are there any household chores you secretly enjoy? Which ones — and why?

Are there any laws or social rules that completely baffle you? Are you a starter or a finisher? Are you afraid of flying in airplanes? Are you living your life purpose — or still searching? Are you useful in a crisis? Can you tell when someone is lying? Can you tell when someone is telling the truth? Do you believe in magic? When have you felt it?