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My first talk was a familiar one — Hypergamy; Micro to Macro — and was an updated version of the talk I delivered at the Man in Demand Conference in Some of these are honest mistakes, and some are just the opinions of guys who only see one side of the Hypergamous equation. Hypergamy is a Straightjacket This is easily the most common misperception I read. Hypergamy is an evolved social dynamic. That is to say it is the behavioral extension of biological factors; most notably Ovulatory Shift. Hypergamy at its root level is about the most efficacious, pragmatic, means of women becoming fertile with the best genetic breeding opportunities, and simultaneously pairing in the long term provisioning opportunities available to a woman. To a strictly deductive, analytical mindset Hypergamy seems a lot like a straightjacket. There are factors and circumstances that can circumvent Hypergamy, and there is nothing deterministic about it. Yes, Hypergamy is often ruthless, but resigning oneself to binary extremes about it gets men nowhere.