Looking for ways to chat up a guy without making it obvious? Use these 15 safe and good conversation starters with a guy and see how easy it can get. Almost all the time, all you need to do is look at the guy you like. Or it may be a blink and miss encounter where both of you hardly have a few minutes to make any move. But if you choose to, you can turn things around in your favor by giving the guy an opportunity to make conversation with you.

I know it’s exciting to finally have someone who you hit it off with and like as more than a friend. Yes, she is dating unequally yoked but she has still made a commitment to this man.

I really want to know! You like the way he makes you feel sometimes! Time waits for no woman and the longer you wait, the better chance that someone else will swoop in and bag your boy! Does he treat you differently than other women? Some guys are just incurable flirts. Most guys only flirt with the one they are interested in. Pay attention to how he acts around other women. Does he say the same things to them as he does to you?

Does he have the same kind of nervous shyness around them too? Men change around someone they like. Think of gorillas thumping their chest to impress a hot lady gorilla. Does he try to show off around you? Is he super nice or super mean to you? Compliments are obvious signs of attraction, but being mean?!!